If Not This Life

Privacy

We keep as little about you as we can. There is no advertising and there are no trackers.

Your email address stays private

You join with your email address, and we use it only to confirm your account and to send a link when you ask for a new password. It is never shown on the site and never shared with anyone: not with other members, not with moderators, not with advertisers. It is stored encrypted, and even the moderators' screens cannot show it.

What we store

Who processes it

The site runs on Cloudflare. Cloudflare Turnstile checks that you are a person when you join or sign in, and Cloudflare's AI models screen new messages for harmful content. Account emails are delivered by Resend, which receives only the address and the email itself. We do not sell or share your data.

Your choices

Everything you post in the forums and the chat is public under your member name, so please do not post anything that identifies you. If you want something taken down, report it and choose “Something else”; a moderator will remove it.

You can turn off private messages, change your bio or password, and delete your account at any time in your settings. Deleting removes your email, your password, your private messages and your sign-ins at once. Posts you made stay up, signed “Former member”.